Really Cool Humans: Do Something Unexpected Today
Photo Credit: "confidence", Brennen Bearnes, https://www.flickr.com/photos/p1k3/
One evening during our recent trip to New York, Marlowe and I took a “sunset cruise” boat ride around Manhattan. My phone is at the age where the battery drains fast, and I was already low on power when we boarded the boat. I tried to take pictures strategically because Marlowe wanted to make sure we would be able to get a picture of the Statue of Liberty—as kind of the “grand finale” of the boat ride, we were to get an up close nighttime view of Lady Liberty after the sun has set.
So when the boat got to the prime view of the Statue, I lifted my camera up, pushed on the photo icon, and watched it shut down. Battery, dead. Photo Opp, lost. “Well, we’ll just take mind pictures, Marlowe,” I shrugged, as Marlowe fought back her disappointment in missing the one photo she actually wanted. (I don’t know why this fake one I paid $10 for wouldn’t cut it.)
Meanwhile, I had struck up a conversation with a lovely young woman sitting next to us, traveling on her own to NYC from Argentina. When my phone died, she offered to take a picture of Marlowe in front of Lady Liberty, and she even took down my email address and said she would send me a copy of it. I thanked her for her kindness, and assumed I would never hear from her again, as surely her travels back to Argentina and the chaos of getting back into a regular routine would send the priority of sending a photo to a stranger from a boat hurtling down to the bottom of the list.
Except, guess what I got on Sunday?
Look at how happy Marlowe seems.
And as small of a gesture as it was, it had a huge impact, both on me and Marlowe: an act of kindness from a continent away that reminded me that “faith in humanity” is a pretty good thing to have, because there are a lot of really cool humans out there. Really cool humans that understand that the connections made in the briefest moments—moments that seem insignificant—can leave impressions and memories that linger on for a lifetime.
Her act of kindness makes me want to be a really cool human, too. To look around for moments—for opportunities—to add a positive impact on someone’s day. To do something unexpected; follow through on a promise no one expects me to deliver on; to remember something important to another. What if we all started doing that? A Rising Revolution of Really Cool Humans, pouncing on every chance to make someone else say “Wow!” or “Really?!” or “Thank you!” or “That’s Awesome.” or “I can’t believe you remembered.”
A Rising Revolution. Let’s do this.
What can you do to be a Really Cool Human today?
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“Really Cool Humans: Do Something Unexpected Today”, The Leadership Program, 2016