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The Languages of Life

Erika Petrelli
Erika Petrelli

The Languages of Life

Photo Credit: "A Wing and a Prayer", JD Hancock, http://photos.jdhancock.com/photo/2009-10-02-040604-a-wing-and-a-prayer.html

I was flying back from New York on Saturday night, after a full day of delays and re-routes, in the midst of the “polar vortex” that swept through the nation last week. As we neared Indiana, the turbulence picked up pretty significantly, and stayed rough for quite some time. So much so that there were audible gasps, and even a few shrieks, from people on the plane.

Normally such lurching and dipping sets my heart rate going too, but this time I was fine. I had music playing in my headphones and so I just turned it up loud, focused on my breath, and was reminded of these passages from The Alchemist, which I just recently re-read.  

“…I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present. If you can concentrate only on the present, you’ll be a happy man. You’ll see that there is life in the desert, and that there are stars in the heavens, and that tribesman fight because they are part of the human race. Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living right now.”

And then later:

“He still had a long way to go to reach the pyramids, and someday this morning would be just a memory. But this was the present moment—the party the camel driver had mentioned—and he wanted to live it as he did the lessons of his past and his dreams of the future. Although the vision of the date palms would someday be just a memory, right now it signified shade, water, and a refuge from the war. Yesterday, the camel’s groan signaled danger, and now a row of date palms could herald a miracle. The world speaks many languages, the boy thought.”

That Paulo Coelho.  He knows a thing or two.

The world speaks many languages, and life is the moment we are living right now.

So, in that moment I could choose to focus on the past—previous experiences with turbulence and comparing if this particular turbulence seemed somehow more menacing—or the future—do planes ever crash if the turbulence gets bad enough? What if I DIE???—or I could just get myself present in that current moment. And the only thing I had control over in that moment was me, so I drowned out the noise of the fear in the cabin with my music and I centered myself with the feeling of my breath.

And the funniest part of it to me was that by being able to focus on the present that was real (me), I was able to close my eyes and escape the present that was not (danger). I’m not sure I’ve ever been so calm, come to think of it.  Go figure.

The world speaks many languages, and those languages change by the day. Danger turns into miracle-- poof, just like that.

Are you paying attention to the language of today, of this moment, for you?




Wings & Whimsy Challenge: Awaken

Challenge: In the swirling and whirling of the holiday season,
it's easy to actually completely lose sight of the present, or
enjoy it anyway. What techniques to you use to ground
yourself and focus on the here and now? Tell me about it in
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“The Languages of Life”, The Leadership Program, 2016


Erika Petrelli

By Erika Petrelli

Erika Petrelli is the Senior Vice President of Leadership Development (and self-declared Minister of Mischief) for The Leadership Program, a New York City-based organization. With a Masters degree in Secondary Education, Erika has been in the field of teaching and training for decades, and has been with The Leadership Program since 1999. There she has the opportunity to nurture the individual leadership spirit in both students and adults across the country, through training, coaching, keynotes, and writing. The legacy Erika strives daily to create is to be the runway upon which others take flight. If you enjoy these blogs, you should check out her interactive journal, On Wings & Whimsy: Finding the Extraordinary Within the Ordinary, now available for sale on Amazon. While her work takes her all around the country, Erika calls Indiana home.